How Mentoring plays out in Youth Ministry

in Coaching on March 1, 2013by Ben_Read

First and foremost, we need to quit dumbing down the definition of Mentoring. We’ve lowered the bar of what it looks like to mentor someone. An adult leader spending time with a student does not equate to mentorship. Adult leaders being best friends with a student does not equate to mentorship. You might be a great mentor at video games, but that’s probably not going to do much for the student in the long run. There are seasons where I get busy, or where I simply take the easy option when it comes to “mentoring” a student, and I’m sure I’m not alone in that. You know, where you simply spend time with them, there’s no real deep discussion, you just sort of fit them into your schedule. If I was to mentor that way all the time, I guarantee my Youth Pastor would hunt me down and slap me. It’s not the example he set, and it’s not mentoring.

Secondly, Mentoring should be the Gospel.

Otherwise, what’s the point? We’re not trying to make apprentices, we’re in the business of making disciples. Teaching students how to make powerpoints, mentoring them on photoshop, all great things, but they should be rooted in the Gospel and using our gifts and talents for the glory of the Lord and expanding his kingdom.

Lastly, Youth Pastors should be Mentor’s of Mentor’s.

Whether you have a youth group of 10 or 1000, one of the primary roles of a Youth Pastor that get’s so overlooked is equipping adults to minister to teens. Want to explode your effectiveness? Stick around a ministry for a few years, through thick and thin, and raise up adult leaders who do 10x the amount of ministry you are able to do on your own.
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Kyle Sullivan at 11:09 am

This is great man and so true! I remember when I was in jr. high and high school I was very intentionally mentored by my youth pastor and he was that person that I went to through everything. That became one of the reasons I wanted to go into ministry is because of the impact of highly intentional mentoring. I knew God called me to be that for other students.
I love the focus on mentoring adults who then mentor the students because the ministry that I get to serve at, that is our focus primarily. We pour into our adult leaders and then the ripple affect is greater than if we, the youth staff, tried to do it on our own.
Great post man!

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Kyle Sullivan at 12:09 pm

This is great man and so true! I remember when I was in jr. high and high school I was very intentionally mentored by my youth pastor and he was that person that I went to through everything. That became one of the reasons I wanted to go into ministry is because of the impact of highly intentional mentoring. I knew God called me to be that for other students.
I love the focus on mentoring adults who then mentor the students because the ministry that I get to serve at, that is our focus primarily. We pour into our adult leaders and then the ripple affect is greater than if we, the youth staff, tried to do it on our own.
Great post man!

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Keith Parker at 2:19 pm

Thanks for a good reminder. It’s important to bring others along with us as we minister to students.

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Keith Parker at 3:19 pm

Thanks for a good reminder. It’s important to bring others along with us as we minister to students.

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