Guest Post: Talking to Someone who knows

August 9, 2013     Ben Read    

…or at least in their mind  🙂

Last week I had an interesting conversation that just hurt me to the core.  My typical day to day routine consists of talking with youth pastors all over the country.  I have heard all kinds of philosophies and stories of how student ministry happens in churches.  This conversation started out very typical and positive.  The students were active in serving the poor in their area and doing mission trips both domestic and abroad.  Awesome stuff!

Then I asked him how they were reaching the lost students in their community and the answer shook me up.  ”We leave that to other churches in the area.  There are so many churches and most kids can find a place to go.  In our suburban area, the students have an attitude of entitlement so we don’t purposefully look for ways to reach them.”  Seriously.  These were the words I heard.  Ouch.

I guess the Great Commission really says, “Just go into the destitute areas and tell those people about me.  Leave the privileged and ‘entitled’ to their own devices.”  I really believe Jesus cringed as He was listening to this conversation.  Many of us in student ministry are trying to figure out what’s wrong or what needs to change in student ministry.  I can say its attitudes like this that need to change.  For us and our students, the mission field is not only at the soup kitchen or a third world country…it is the person right next to us who looks like they have it all together.

As adults, we have to lead the charge.  We cannot have the attitude of “I’ll let someone else take care of that” when it comes to meeting a need that someone has.

Tell me about a crazy conversation you’ve had that you never expected….


Marjorie Poff is a NW girl who now calls Nashville, TN area home. She is Director of Ministry Events for Fuselage and wears many hats in that position but the most important is working with Student Pastors to provide ways to reach students. She regularly blogs at the Musings of a Mad Woman and tweets from @marjoriepoff.

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0 thoughts on “Guest Post: Talking to Someone who knows”

    1. HeatherLeaCampbell

      This is a poor comment. There is absolutely no feedback in it!

      I think Marjorie did an EXCELLENT job and made some points that are hard to refute. I assume that you must disagree with the premises of the article, which means you must disagree with the premises of the Bible.

      1. Marjorie Poff

        Thanks Heather! 🙂 I never self-edit blogs. When I write, I just have to publish or I never would get things out there.

        This is a touchy subject and I know there are a lot of people out there that disagree with what I think about this. (It’s so much easier to let the troublemakers go.) Before I dealt with this first hand, I would have disagreed with myself…ha!

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